The 90-MinuteMarriage Check-Infor Christian Couples
A simple, grace-filled framework to reconnect, listen well, and repair quickly — rooted in Scripture and designed for busy Christian couples who want their marriage to reflect Christ's love.
Marriage isn't two strands trying harder.It's three — you, your spouse, and Christ at the center.
Most check-ins become check-ups — scoreboard, silence, or subtle score-keeping. Tonight we trade that for grace. In ninety minutes you'll get a simple, repeatable rhythm you can come back to every week: notice grace, name what's real, listen like Christ, and repair quickly when tension rises.
- No prep required — come as you are
- Practical tools you'll use the same night
- A take-home framework for the week ahead
Counting down to October 1
Thursday, October 1 · 7:00–8:30 PM EST · Live online with John & Pat
One evening. A rhythm that lasts.
No prep required — come as you are. In 90 minutes you'll leave with practical tools you can use the same night.
A weekly Check-In Map
Four honest questions — appreciation, pressure, desire, prayer — you can return to every week.
The Speaker–Listener tool
One voice, one ear. Christ-like listening that turns conflict into connection.
A Repair Script
When tension rises, a grace-filled way to pause, own your part, and re-enter with prayer.
Take-home resources
Fridge prompts and a Rule of Life card so the rhythm lasts long after the evening ends.
501(c)(3) nonprofit · Your registration may be tax-deductible
Every tool, anchored in God's Word
The Check-In framework isn't borrowed from the culture — it's drawn straight from Scripture. Here are the passages we'll return to all evening.
Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up. Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; but how can one be warm alone? Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Ecclesiastes 4:9–12
Your marriage isn't two strands trying harder. It's three — you, your spouse, and Christ at the center.
Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection.
Colossians 3:12–14
Compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness — and over all these, love.
So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.
James 1:19
The heart of the Speaker–Listener tool — Christ-like listening that turns conflict into connection.
Tonight's commitment: we will put on love — even when it's hard — and invite Jesus into the middle of our check-in.
Join Us Thursday, October 1Save your seats — $25 per couple
Join us live on October 1 from 7–8:30 PM EST. One registration covers both of you, and you'll receive the take-home Check-In Map, tools, and fridge prompts after the evening.